"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Makeout Advice Needed From The Men ;D

delighted_mistress

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Well, so you see, I've decided that a little 'how to' thread would be very useful to us girls, as the only ones I've seen lately are more directed for male benefit than female.

I would love it if you men of this website would care to share with me some of your own personal makeout tips. My current relationship is amazing, but I find the makeout and kissing part a lot harder this time around. In my last relationship, making out just came naturally and we just flowed, but the guy was a jackass. My current beau and I are really good together, and he's just amazing... biggest problem is that kissing him makes me feel awkward because he's nothing like I'm used to, and I'm not quite sure how to go about kissing him back. Sooo, I figured what the hell, whatever tips you guys throw out, I'll try, and hopefully will end up finding a good method that works for his kissing style.

It's worth a shot. I'm getting a little tired of coming up with trial and error techniques by myself, so... yeah. Have at it! Tell me what you male figures like to see in a makeout session.
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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delighted_mistress

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Well it doesn't show up as small on this computer, though I did change it for the benifit of those who think otherwise =D
 

Master Bates

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why don't you just not change the font at all. what is it with girls on the internet using crazy fonts?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ThunderMaverick

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Hm I think It all about the attitude of the person and how THEY themselves feel about kissing. For some people, it's just a green light for sex or crossing one side of the street to the next. They don't see kissing as a joy ride, a scenic route. Something to really enjoy. If sex is the destination, then kissing is the road traveled.

Where am I going?

Why do you feel uncomfortable with kissing him? What are you use to when it comes to kissing? What makes it so bad?
 

RAFCbearfilm

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Search the tao of sex and proceed from there - there is enough free material to not have to buy the book.
Take your time and have fun! no rushy rushy to the finish line.
 
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