"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Roly

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All I know is this has been said a thousand freakin times : Read the DJ Bible and apply the " techniques" you have learned. But I believe there's a great misunderstanding to this.

You know I was on my Anatomy and Physiology tutoring yesterday. And we were going over the body parts and the human functions and stuff and a great piece of learning advice was given to me by my tutorer - Let's call him Jeff. This guy was nerdy looking and he was very passionate about Anatomy and Physiology and he was willing to tutor us for free because he like helping people. I dunno if this guy knows anything about the Djing or anything, but I assume he probably was a DJ because of the way he handled himself. He was a very cool guy.

Anyways he said , " Don't memorize or dwell on the information, Learn it ! and Make it a part of you ! Understand the concept !" And you know this advice not only goes into DJism but in life as well.
Do you always have to think about buttoning your shirt in the morning? No, it's just natural right?

Well let's say your reading an article of the DJ Bible and it's talking about the " 2 day rule". It said don't call a chick two days until after you get her number and she will be more attracted to you.

But the question is why? what is the purpose of this? why 2 days? why so? Well as you know, the concept of the DJ bible is not only about getting chicks, but it deals about being - THE MAN and being a more confident and highly esteemed person. So let's ask ourselves? Would a confident person who's not desperate and not needy, lives a passionate lifestyle and hell, has probably has tons of girls on his phone need to call the girl right off the bat? Yep ! exactly. Know the concept, relate it to something you understand personally and it will all make sense.

Or your reading an article about being ****y and funny right off the bat as soon as you meet the girl and you will get her attracted to you. And the question is why so?

Well the question is - would a cool guy take a girl seriously right off the bat? or test her, have fun with her and check that she has an uplifting personality and that she's not psycho.

Okay, what I'm trying to say is don't memorize the techniques just to attract chicks, Learn them ! and make it a part of you ! Know its concept and understand why it is and what it is.

The bible/ site keeps preaching your confidence , innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch in order to get chicks, get laid, get dates, etc.

But if you understand it from a clearer and more enlightened perspective, it is this: - Your confidence, innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch for you have to a better chance of succeeding in any areas of life. :D
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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08aisaac

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This is true. No matter how much you read, you won't get far unless you learn it, so you don't have to keep coming back.
 
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