"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Make this stuff a part of you

Roly

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All I know is this has been said a thousand freakin times : Read the DJ Bible and apply the " techniques" you have learned. But I believe there's a great misunderstanding to this.

You know I was on my Anatomy and Physiology tutoring yesterday. And we were going over the body parts and the human functions and stuff and a great piece of learning advice was given to me by my tutorer - Let's call him Jeff. This guy was nerdy looking and he was very passionate about Anatomy and Physiology and he was willing to tutor us for free because he like helping people. I dunno if this guy knows anything about the Djing or anything, but I assume he probably was a DJ because of the way he handled himself. He was a very cool guy.

Anyways he said , " Don't memorize or dwell on the information, Learn it ! and Make it a part of you ! Understand the concept !" And you know this advice not only goes into DJism but in life as well.
Do you always have to think about buttoning your shirt in the morning? No, it's just natural right?

Well let's say your reading an article of the DJ Bible and it's talking about the " 2 day rule". It said don't call a chick two days until after you get her number and she will be more attracted to you.

But the question is why? what is the purpose of this? why 2 days? why so? Well as you know, the concept of the DJ bible is not only about getting chicks, but it deals about being - THE MAN and being a more confident and highly esteemed person. So let's ask ourselves? Would a confident person who's not desperate and not needy, lives a passionate lifestyle and hell, has probably has tons of girls on his phone need to call the girl right off the bat? Yep ! exactly. Know the concept, relate it to something you understand personally and it will all make sense.

Or your reading an article about being ****y and funny right off the bat as soon as you meet the girl and you will get her attracted to you. And the question is why so?

Well the question is - would a cool guy take a girl seriously right off the bat? or test her, have fun with her and check that she has an uplifting personality and that she's not psycho.

Okay, what I'm trying to say is don't memorize the techniques just to attract chicks, Learn them ! and make it a part of you ! Know its concept and understand why it is and what it is.

The bible/ site keeps preaching your confidence , innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch in order to get chicks, get laid, get dates, etc.

But if you understand it from a clearer and more enlightened perspective, it is this: - Your confidence, innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch for you have to a better chance of succeeding in any areas of life. :D
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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08aisaac

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This is true. No matter how much you read, you won't get far unless you learn it, so you don't have to keep coming back.
 
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