"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Make this stuff a part of you

Roly

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All I know is this has been said a thousand freakin times : Read the DJ Bible and apply the " techniques" you have learned. But I believe there's a great misunderstanding to this.

You know I was on my Anatomy and Physiology tutoring yesterday. And we were going over the body parts and the human functions and stuff and a great piece of learning advice was given to me by my tutorer - Let's call him Jeff. This guy was nerdy looking and he was very passionate about Anatomy and Physiology and he was willing to tutor us for free because he like helping people. I dunno if this guy knows anything about the Djing or anything, but I assume he probably was a DJ because of the way he handled himself. He was a very cool guy.

Anyways he said , " Don't memorize or dwell on the information, Learn it ! and Make it a part of you ! Understand the concept !" And you know this advice not only goes into DJism but in life as well.
Do you always have to think about buttoning your shirt in the morning? No, it's just natural right?

Well let's say your reading an article of the DJ Bible and it's talking about the " 2 day rule". It said don't call a chick two days until after you get her number and she will be more attracted to you.

But the question is why? what is the purpose of this? why 2 days? why so? Well as you know, the concept of the DJ bible is not only about getting chicks, but it deals about being - THE MAN and being a more confident and highly esteemed person. So let's ask ourselves? Would a confident person who's not desperate and not needy, lives a passionate lifestyle and hell, has probably has tons of girls on his phone need to call the girl right off the bat? Yep ! exactly. Know the concept, relate it to something you understand personally and it will all make sense.

Or your reading an article about being ****y and funny right off the bat as soon as you meet the girl and you will get her attracted to you. And the question is why so?

Well the question is - would a cool guy take a girl seriously right off the bat? or test her, have fun with her and check that she has an uplifting personality and that she's not psycho.

Okay, what I'm trying to say is don't memorize the techniques just to attract chicks, Learn them ! and make it a part of you ! Know its concept and understand why it is and what it is.

The bible/ site keeps preaching your confidence , innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch in order to get chicks, get laid, get dates, etc.

But if you understand it from a clearer and more enlightened perspective, it is this: - Your confidence, innerpeace and self esteem must be at top notch for you have to a better chance of succeeding in any areas of life. :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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08aisaac

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This is true. No matter how much you read, you won't get far unless you learn it, so you don't have to keep coming back.
 
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