"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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frivolousz21

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One thing I can see on this board is a commen theme.

you come here...because youve been hurt...you thought you loved her...you thought she loved you..while she was ready to leave you...you were ready to spend the rest of your yrs with her.

dont be in 2 diff relationships..keep open communication with her. watch her body language and eyes...

that will tell you if she wants to be there with you.

good luck
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
One thing I can see on this board is a commen theme.

you come here...because youve been hurt...you thought you loved her...you thought she loved you..while she was ready to leave you...you were ready to spend the rest of your yrs with her.

dont be in 2 diff relationships..keep open communication with her. watch her body language and eyes...

that will tell you if she wants to be there with you.

good luck
i have a confession to make. i'm in love with you. oh don't get that look on your face. do you like me too? *looks in your eyes* wanna go out sumtime?
 

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oh don't get that look on your face. do you like me too? *looks in your eyes* wanna go out sumtime?

haha! u know what I mean.

she can say I love you...bytches can play a guy..but true women will show you threw there actions and eyes when they look at you
 

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frivolous21, your purpose on SOSUAVE has been used up long ago, please go somewhere else to spout useless drivel advice.
 

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maybe your right.


or maybe my pm box gets filled for a reason.


since you are a master dj..this drival im sure you know.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Once again DuanJuanMonk proves his lack of undersstanding of people and what really goes on in this world.

What he's speaking to is the idea of someone not being honest with themselves, they don't always looking at a relationship for what it is only for what they would like to see. So, instead fo ending it while it's going down hill they end up getting dumped and feel horrible about it.

This happens quite often as well.
 

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as much as I hate to admit it...

it happened to me with the gf I had before the current one.

she didnt feel the same..I didnt see it...she ended up breaking it off with me...then taking me back...for the sex.


regardless it hurt the first time...because I was blind to what was happening.
 
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