"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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frivolousz21

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One thing I can see on this board is a commen theme.

you come here...because youve been hurt...you thought you loved her...you thought she loved you..while she was ready to leave you...you were ready to spend the rest of your yrs with her.

dont be in 2 diff relationships..keep open communication with her. watch her body language and eyes...

that will tell you if she wants to be there with you.

good luck
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Originally posted by frivolousz21
One thing I can see on this board is a commen theme.

you come here...because youve been hurt...you thought you loved her...you thought she loved you..while she was ready to leave you...you were ready to spend the rest of your yrs with her.

dont be in 2 diff relationships..keep open communication with her. watch her body language and eyes...

that will tell you if she wants to be there with you.

good luck
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i have a confession to make. i'm in love with you. oh don't get that look on your face. do you like me too? *looks in your eyes* wanna go out sumtime?
 
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oh don't get that look on your face. do you like me too? *looks in your eyes* wanna go out sumtime?
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haha! u know what I mean.

she can say I love you...bytches can play a guy..but true women will show you threw there actions and eyes when they look at you
 
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frivolous21, your purpose on SOSUAVE has been used up long ago, please go somewhere else to spout useless drivel advice.
 
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maybe your right.


or maybe my pm box gets filled for a reason.


since you are a master dj..this drival im sure you know.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Once again DuanJuanMonk proves his lack of undersstanding of people and what really goes on in this world.

What he's speaking to is the idea of someone not being honest with themselves, they don't always looking at a relationship for what it is only for what they would like to see. So, instead fo ending it while it's going down hill they end up getting dumped and feel horrible about it.

This happens quite often as well.
 
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as much as I hate to admit it...

it happened to me with the gf I had before the current one.

she didnt feel the same..I didnt see it...she ended up breaking it off with me...then taking me back...for the sex.


regardless it hurt the first time...because I was blind to what was happening.
 
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