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Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
 

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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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you can go up to here and say something interesting/funny to her and thats fine. but it also works in advance to get her to smile at you.... for example.. an attractive girl and i met eyes across the room and i waved hi to her and mouthed 'hi' also. she smiled and looked down... i ignored her after that and a couple of minutes i walk over and before i even give a sign im going to sit next to her she starts smiling and says 'hi matt'... see it works either way it just depends what way you want to go...
 
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Originally posted by avrilishot
Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
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The future is uncontrolled by man. Stop worry about what hasnt happened yet. No two people are exactly alike.

Just be friendly, whatever that means to you do it, and then GO WITH DA FLOW!
 

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When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

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What techniques do you do to number close effectively? Ever do it with out getting eye contact even? Have you done this on girls walking around in public say on campus in between classes?
 
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Originally posted by Naapimp
What techniques do you do to number close effectively? Ever do it with out getting eye contact even? Have you done this on girls walking around in public say on campus in between classes?
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How do you order a hamburger from McDonalds?

You simply "ask" for a hamburger.

You get a girls number by simply asking her for her number. If she wants to give it to you she will say yes, if she doesn't she will say no. Its not rocket science.
 
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Originally posted by Royal Elite
How do you order a hamburger from McDonalds?

You simply "ask" for a hamburger.

You get a girls number by simply asking her for her number. If she wants to give it to you she will say yes, if she doesn't she will say no. Its not rocket science.
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You don't ask for the number; you tell her to give you her number. You're in charge.
 
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You don't ask for the number; you tell her to give you her number. You're in charge.
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This sounds "cute" in theory, but thats all it is.

Bottom Line:
If a girl wants to give you her number she will
if she doesn't she wont.

Attraction is not rocket science.
A girl likes you
or
she doesnt
 
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I think telling her to give it to you is best, if she's hesistant about it it's harder for her to say no to that.

You need to get to the point where that is reasonible demand though. I'm just not sure how should go about doing that in 1-5 minutes after you just approached her for no reason, any help please?
 

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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Originally posted by avrilishot
Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
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Dude, PLEASE get rid of tricks. There's so much going on when you go to a chick... do NOT fvck up thinking "oh I should be smiling". You should be thinking as little as possible.

For me, things like smiling and eye contact are natural. I like to look females into the eyes, especially the ones I'm attracted to. If their eyes are receptive, I naturally smile, and it's a sexual smile -- they either accept it or reject it.

Try to make it as natural as possible. In the past I fvcked up with a trick too, but it was the opposite one. "Be Serious to be a man", shyt like this. I came out as just BORING.

But this is ME. The trick, if you need one, is to find out what works for you. Try what you want to. But when doing it, just do it.
 
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