"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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you can go up to here and say something interesting/funny to her and thats fine. but it also works in advance to get her to smile at you.... for example.. an attractive girl and i met eyes across the room and i waved hi to her and mouthed 'hi' also. she smiled and looked down... i ignored her after that and a couple of minutes i walk over and before i even give a sign im going to sit next to her she starts smiling and says 'hi matt'... see it works either way it just depends what way you want to go...
 
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Originally posted by avrilishot
Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
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The future is uncontrolled by man. Stop worry about what hasnt happened yet. No two people are exactly alike.

Just be friendly, whatever that means to you do it, and then GO WITH DA FLOW!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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What techniques do you do to number close effectively? Ever do it with out getting eye contact even? Have you done this on girls walking around in public say on campus in between classes?
 
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What techniques do you do to number close effectively? Ever do it with out getting eye contact even? Have you done this on girls walking around in public say on campus in between classes?
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How do you order a hamburger from McDonalds?

You simply "ask" for a hamburger.

You get a girls number by simply asking her for her number. If she wants to give it to you she will say yes, if she doesn't she will say no. Its not rocket science.
 
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Originally posted by Royal Elite
How do you order a hamburger from McDonalds?

You simply "ask" for a hamburger.

You get a girls number by simply asking her for her number. If she wants to give it to you she will say yes, if she doesn't she will say no. Its not rocket science.
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You don't ask for the number; you tell her to give you her number. You're in charge.
 
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You don't ask for the number; you tell her to give you her number. You're in charge.
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This sounds "cute" in theory, but thats all it is.

Bottom Line:
If a girl wants to give you her number she will
if she doesn't she wont.

Attraction is not rocket science.
A girl likes you
or
she doesnt
 
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I think telling her to give it to you is best, if she's hesistant about it it's harder for her to say no to that.

You need to get to the point where that is reasonible demand though. I'm just not sure how should go about doing that in 1-5 minutes after you just approached her for no reason, any help please?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Originally posted by avrilishot
Today I read something about approaching. The article was saying before you approach a chick make sure she smile first before an approach. So I wanted to know what you all think of this? Cause from what I learned it doesnt matter just go up to the chick ad start talking. even if she doesnt smile at you.

So please someone help me out im a bit confused?
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Dude, PLEASE get rid of tricks. There's so much going on when you go to a chick... do NOT fvck up thinking "oh I should be smiling". You should be thinking as little as possible.

For me, things like smiling and eye contact are natural. I like to look females into the eyes, especially the ones I'm attracted to. If their eyes are receptive, I naturally smile, and it's a sexual smile -- they either accept it or reject it.

Try to make it as natural as possible. In the past I fvcked up with a trick too, but it was the opposite one. "Be Serious to be a man", shyt like this. I came out as just BORING.

But this is ME. The trick, if you need one, is to find out what works for you. Try what you want to. But when doing it, just do it.
 
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