"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Make Rejection a thing of a past

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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DJnoob said:
Just watch 30 seconds of this and.. and "you won't feel bad after getting shutdown"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPYzLfWuyoI

this is how the "ugly" guys get hot girls.

Each one of us has a ratio above our heads that you can't see..
Ratio? Sure, when. I go into a building, I expect to get every girl I game for, if I don't then I need to improve somewhere. :p
 

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DJnoob said:
Just watch 30 seconds of this and.. and "you won't feel bad after getting shutdown"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPYzLfWuyoI

this is how the "ugly" guys get hot girls.

Each one of us has a ratio above our heads that you can't see..

its a good simple analogy and its true. too many guys scared to get shot down so they dont approach...expect to get shot down! if you dont ever get shot down you must be a god, even jesus christ was rejected by millions. you have to learn to deal with the strike outs, pick yourself up and swing again but learn as you do so
 
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