"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Make Rejection a thing of a past

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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DJnoob said:
Just watch 30 seconds of this and.. and "you won't feel bad after getting shutdown"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPYzLfWuyoI

this is how the "ugly" guys get hot girls.

Each one of us has a ratio above our heads that you can't see..
Ratio? Sure, when. I go into a building, I expect to get every girl I game for, if I don't then I need to improve somewhere. :p
 

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DJnoob said:
Just watch 30 seconds of this and.. and "you won't feel bad after getting shutdown"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IPYzLfWuyoI

this is how the "ugly" guys get hot girls.

Each one of us has a ratio above our heads that you can't see..

its a good simple analogy and its true. too many guys scared to get shot down so they dont approach...expect to get shot down! if you dont ever get shot down you must be a god, even jesus christ was rejected by millions. you have to learn to deal with the strike outs, pick yourself up and swing again but learn as you do so
 
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