"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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realsmoothie

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Heh, can't believe that's my title.

But the spirit is the same. I'm wondering if you guys can help me with some music I can play when the babes come over to my place for the first few times... i.e. something that's comfortable and sexy but doesn't scream "HE'S GONNA KISS YOU NOW!"

Remember, this is the mature man forum, OK? So we're talking about girls (er, women) from 23 up. So no Sean Paul, please.

No category is beyond use here. It doesn't even have to be lyrical. Alternative-y stuff that they might not know is a MAJOR plus. I have some electronic albums (this is my specialty) that may work, but I'm needing other genres.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The Aluminum Group
Air
Pulp
Sam Prekop
The Clientele
The Stone Roses
Royksopp

Not exactly your mainstream stuff, but it's what I have playing all the time. Women love it and always ask what they're listening too because it "sounds so nice".
 

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Air and Pulp are favourites of mine. Don't know anything about the other ones, will check them out.

Anyone else? And no Enya, geez...
 

Cash

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Isley brothers - between the sheets.

Actually, that's a bit TOO slick.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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