"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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realsmoothie

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Heh, can't believe that's my title.

But the spirit is the same. I'm wondering if you guys can help me with some music I can play when the babes come over to my place for the first few times... i.e. something that's comfortable and sexy but doesn't scream "HE'S GONNA KISS YOU NOW!"

Remember, this is the mature man forum, OK? So we're talking about girls (er, women) from 23 up. So no Sean Paul, please.

No category is beyond use here. It doesn't even have to be lyrical. Alternative-y stuff that they might not know is a MAJOR plus. I have some electronic albums (this is my specialty) that may work, but I'm needing other genres.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wrender

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The Aluminum Group
Air
Pulp
Sam Prekop
The Clientele
The Stone Roses
Royksopp

Not exactly your mainstream stuff, but it's what I have playing all the time. Women love it and always ask what they're listening too because it "sounds so nice".
 

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Air and Pulp are favourites of mine. Don't know anything about the other ones, will check them out.

Anyone else? And no Enya, geez...
 

Cash

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Isley brothers - between the sheets.

Actually, that's a bit TOO slick.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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