"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Make her quit smoking

backseatjuan

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Problem as follows. In a relationship 6 months. She's smoking 1.5 packs per day. Says she doesn't want to quit. I smoke too, but a little less. I can quit right now, I don't have a problem with that. What I think her problem is that the same as chicks with phones, social umbrella type of thing. She lights one up when there is nothing to do, etc.

How to make her quit?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Up hill battle.
 

Zerro

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You can't, it's an addiction. If it's a problem for you then it's something you need to screen out before getting into a relationship with them.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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It's not about wanting to quit, most people want to. You know you're ready to quit when you quit cold turkey or with slight help with supplements.

Just give her your views. It helps keep yourself accountable when you're spouting your views because it makes you not want to be a hypocrite.

A good way to convince ANY girl about anything involving themselves (weight, etc) is to comment on other guys and definitely other girls, and say its a turn off or something that makes them think your attraction to them particularly has dropped. They'll try to compensate and improve.
 
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