"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Make her quit smoking

backseatjuan

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Problem as follows. In a relationship 6 months. She's smoking 1.5 packs per day. Says she doesn't want to quit. I smoke too, but a little less. I can quit right now, I don't have a problem with that. What I think her problem is that the same as chicks with phones, social umbrella type of thing. She lights one up when there is nothing to do, etc.

How to make her quit?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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SamTheHobit

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Up hill battle.
 

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You can't, it's an addiction. If it's a problem for you then it's something you need to screen out before getting into a relationship with them.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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It's not about wanting to quit, most people want to. You know you're ready to quit when you quit cold turkey or with slight help with supplements.

Just give her your views. It helps keep yourself accountable when you're spouting your views because it makes you not want to be a hypocrite.

A good way to convince ANY girl about anything involving themselves (weight, etc) is to comment on other guys and definitely other girls, and say its a turn off or something that makes them think your attraction to them particularly has dropped. They'll try to compensate and improve.
 
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