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how to reassure her to not make her feel like a slut after having sex or after making out with her or after touching her?
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
make feel she is not a slut
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
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Tell her you enjoy the time you guys spend together.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
Greasy Pig
Master Don Juan
After you fvck a chick I just talk to them about random shyt. Like nothing happened.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
This is pretty simple really: most chicks like to cuddle after sex so just let them, it's jumping out of bed right away that makes them feel like a slut. Let her snuggle you like a teddy bear, stroke her back with your hand, kiss her, tell her about how you enjoyed what you just did with her, those little things go a long way. After a bit of that she'll probably want to have sex again so bonus.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
