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how to reassure her to not make her feel like a slut after having sex or after making out with her or after touching her?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
make feel she is not a slut
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
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Tell her you enjoy the time you guys spend together.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
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Master Don Juan
After you fvck a chick I just talk to them about random shyt. Like nothing happened.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
This is pretty simple really: most chicks like to cuddle after sex so just let them, it's jumping out of bed right away that makes them feel like a slut. Let her snuggle you like a teddy bear, stroke her back with your hand, kiss her, tell her about how you enjoyed what you just did with her, those little things go a long way. After a bit of that she'll probably want to have sex again so bonus.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
