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how to reassure her to not make her feel like a slut after having sex or after making out with her or after touching her?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
make feel she is not a slut
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Tell her you enjoy the time you guys spend together.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
Or call her a VERY dirty slvt for cool points.
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After you fvck a chick I just talk to them about random shyt. Like nothing happened.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
I might throw a smart arse comment if she tried to dodge my man oil or if she has to clean herself up.
But just act cool. You don't need to fawn over her or reassure her. Just talk and have a laugh. I also try not to leave for about an hour or so after the deed.
This is pretty simple really: most chicks like to cuddle after sex so just let them, it's jumping out of bed right away that makes them feel like a slut. Let her snuggle you like a teddy bear, stroke her back with your hand, kiss her, tell her about how you enjoyed what you just did with her, those little things go a long way. After a bit of that she'll probably want to have sex again so bonus.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
