"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Major Update on my story, What do you think?

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Read my previous posts to get more info if you want more backround.

Brief History:

6 month LTR headed into the summer and her friends are influencing her to break up with me to "party" this summer.



This msg was sent from my girl to her best friend:

heyy love.. you're going to be disapointed in me .. But i called mike.. i know i know .. it'll never end if i keep calling him.. But i seriously could not stop myself. And once i heard his voice tears started pouring down my cheeks.. I am so confused i wish i could just decide what i wanted.. I'm going thru what you and james went thru for so long. We CAN'T let eachother go. I wish i could just move on or realize that i really am in love with mike. But everytime i try to move away from him.. i feel like theres something missing .. how did you ever get past it..? I wish mike was going to like TENNESSE for college .. that would make things a whole lot easier.. errr i'm so confused.. well i love you and i hope you're having fun tonight!!
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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what do u want us to say man ? Its in plain English what her thoughts are on the relationship. Do u want us to predict the future for you ?
 
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Yeah wiesman come on bust out that crystal ball of yours...
 
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You have to read the rest of my posts to understand.

Brief History:

6 month LTR headed into the summer and her friends are influencing her to break up with me to "party" this summer.
 
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Yes, read the 35 other threads girlsarecrazy has posted about this 'relationship.'

Then marvel at how similar his writing style is to the 'woman' he quotes, and also to skip2mylou and his 'friend' DonJuanByNature.

You KNOW wat i mean....?!?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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So, you all are still suggesting rid this girl? I'm already over her, i don't get uneasy when i'm not with her anymore. She's not over me and I feel like if she confesses her love to me, I can just play her off, hold on for a little until things get serious with this other chick i'm seeing. I mean come on.. she's hurt me twice, I can play a little something back to her right?

Then i'll drop the old girl completely when things get a little more serious with this new girl who i'm seeing.
 
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