"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Major Update on my story, What do you think?

girlsarecrazy

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Read my previous posts to get more info if you want more backround.

Brief History:

6 month LTR headed into the summer and her friends are influencing her to break up with me to "party" this summer.



This msg was sent from my girl to her best friend:

heyy love.. you're going to be disapointed in me .. But i called mike.. i know i know .. it'll never end if i keep calling him.. But i seriously could not stop myself. And once i heard his voice tears started pouring down my cheeks.. I am so confused i wish i could just decide what i wanted.. I'm going thru what you and james went thru for so long. We CAN'T let eachother go. I wish i could just move on or realize that i really am in love with mike. But everytime i try to move away from him.. i feel like theres something missing .. how did you ever get past it..? I wish mike was going to like TENNESSE for college .. that would make things a whole lot easier.. errr i'm so confused.. well i love you and i hope you're having fun tonight!!
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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what do u want us to say man ? Its in plain English what her thoughts are on the relationship. Do u want us to predict the future for you ?
 

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Yeah wiesman come on bust out that crystal ball of yours...
 

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You have to read the rest of my posts to understand.

Brief History:

6 month LTR headed into the summer and her friends are influencing her to break up with me to "party" this summer.
 

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Yes, read the 35 other threads girlsarecrazy has posted about this 'relationship.'

Then marvel at how similar his writing style is to the 'woman' he quotes, and also to skip2mylou and his 'friend' DonJuanByNature.

You KNOW wat i mean....?!?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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girlsarecrazy

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So, you all are still suggesting rid this girl? I'm already over her, i don't get uneasy when i'm not with her anymore. She's not over me and I feel like if she confesses her love to me, I can just play her off, hold on for a little until things get serious with this other chick i'm seeing. I mean come on.. she's hurt me twice, I can play a little something back to her right?

Then i'll drop the old girl completely when things get a little more serious with this new girl who i'm seeing.
 
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