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Don Juan
I feel I have only one obstacle that stops me from being:
- good with women
- a good salesman
- a person with perceived high sosical skills
I'm so f##king slow and unimaginative when it comes to conversations. This is, for example, what happens when I try to talk to a girl in a bar:
Me: (walks up to woman). Hi.
She: Hello (smiles).
Me: So...um...wazzup?
She: Oh, just I'm just having a couple of drinks and relaxing, how about you?
Me: Umm...yeah, it's relaxing to drink.
She: But I must talk to my friend now, see ya. (translated: you're boring, bye)
I'm slow, and I can't come up with conversation topics. I have asked a similar question of the forum earlier, and it helped a little to focus on things around me for topics, but I often ended up talking about the wall, the furniture and the floor :cuss: , so...I don't know. If ever, I find out what I SHOULD have said 10 minutes - 2 weeks later. :crazy:
Can these skills be learned, or do I need a different approach?
- good with women
- a good salesman
- a person with perceived high sosical skills
I'm so f##king slow and unimaginative when it comes to conversations. This is, for example, what happens when I try to talk to a girl in a bar:
Me: (walks up to woman). Hi.
She: Hello (smiles).
Me: So...um...wazzup?
She: Oh, just I'm just having a couple of drinks and relaxing, how about you?
Me: Umm...yeah, it's relaxing to drink.
She: But I must talk to my friend now, see ya. (translated: you're boring, bye)
I'm slow, and I can't come up with conversation topics. I have asked a similar question of the forum earlier, and it helped a little to focus on things around me for topics, but I often ended up talking about the wall, the furniture and the floor :cuss: , so...I don't know. If ever, I find out what I SHOULD have said 10 minutes - 2 weeks later. :crazy:
Can these skills be learned, or do I need a different approach?