"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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major/minor question

nosmirk

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major muscle groups - back, chest, shoulders

minor - biceps, triceps, traps


i was wondering how should these be paired for the best results; for example,

Day 1: back + biceps
Day 2: chest + triceps
Day 3: shoulders + traps ?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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EFFORT

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Legs (Squats and Goodmorings/pullthroughs/hyperextension/glute ham and calf work)
Chest/Shoulders/Tris
Back (deads, rows, pulldowns, curls)

This would work good for your situation
 

shaunuk

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One traditional split goes like this:

Back + biceps
Chest + triceps
Legs + shoulders

however some people still have enough juice in them on chest day to do shoulders, so they prefer:

Back + biceps
Chest + shoulders + triceps
Legs

and abs will (usually) be thrown in on at least 1 or 2 of those days.

HOWEVER, considering that most back exercises hit your biceps in some way (i.e. pull-ups, pull-downs, rows, deadlifts), and that most chest exercises hit your triceps (i.e. bench press variations, dips, etc), some people prefer to swap the muscle pairings around so that they can get the most out of their arm work without them being fatigued from assistance in other exercises. That is,

Back + triceps
Chest + biceps
Legs + shoulders

Personally I think it's a good idea, and it is quite a commonly used one.

My split is back+biceps, chest+triceps, and legs+shoulders. For *best* results, maybe the above is perhaps slightly better.

The opinions of everyone else would be good to hear :up:

Cheers,
-shaun
 

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I find that if I'm lifting heavy enough on my major groups, my smaller muscles will grow too.

Big back lifts will make the biceps grow, big chest will make the triceps grow.
 
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