"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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major/minor question

nosmirk

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major muscle groups - back, chest, shoulders

minor - biceps, triceps, traps


i was wondering how should these be paired for the best results; for example,

Day 1: back + biceps
Day 2: chest + triceps
Day 3: shoulders + traps ?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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EFFORT

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Legs (Squats and Goodmorings/pullthroughs/hyperextension/glute ham and calf work)
Chest/Shoulders/Tris
Back (deads, rows, pulldowns, curls)

This would work good for your situation
 

shaunuk

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One traditional split goes like this:

Back + biceps
Chest + triceps
Legs + shoulders

however some people still have enough juice in them on chest day to do shoulders, so they prefer:

Back + biceps
Chest + shoulders + triceps
Legs

and abs will (usually) be thrown in on at least 1 or 2 of those days.

HOWEVER, considering that most back exercises hit your biceps in some way (i.e. pull-ups, pull-downs, rows, deadlifts), and that most chest exercises hit your triceps (i.e. bench press variations, dips, etc), some people prefer to swap the muscle pairings around so that they can get the most out of their arm work without them being fatigued from assistance in other exercises. That is,

Back + triceps
Chest + biceps
Legs + shoulders

Personally I think it's a good idea, and it is quite a commonly used one.

My split is back+biceps, chest+triceps, and legs+shoulders. For *best* results, maybe the above is perhaps slightly better.

The opinions of everyone else would be good to hear :up:

Cheers,
-shaun
 

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I find that if I'm lifting heavy enough on my major groups, my smaller muscles will grow too.

Big back lifts will make the biceps grow, big chest will make the triceps grow.
 
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