"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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My girlfriend stinks. :mad:


She seems to have 2 smells to her. One of her overusing perfume (I think the names Angel), and there's some other smell that really bothers me. I just get this nasty smell that after a second, I overcome, but that smell is horrible. I don't even go down on her, and she still smells when I meet her. She doesn't stink on dates I've been on so far, but at school, she smells horrible.


It's definitely not her period, and she has this problem day in and day out.





How do I fix this problem?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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just tell her straight out she stinks unless she is middle eastern, they just have a certain smell.
 

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It might be that she is sweety, Hey that stuff stinks.

Tell her to wear deoderant!:crackup:
 

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Originally posted by Inquire
just tell her straight out she stinks unless she is middle eastern, they just
have a certain smell.
Straight out tell her? It's a sensitive issue... what's a nice way to construct it?
 

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Mmm... what kind of smell is it? One of my friends brothers doesn't really bath... and when he does, he just puts back old clothes on himself... oh, and he doesn't wash those clothes or his sheets. Peee-hew!

Coz dude, if it's the kind of smell that means she's not taking care of herself... then I would't really involve myself with people like that anyhow - they won't dop you any good. :)

Otherwise, tell her about it... perhaps it's some freaky medical condition. *shrugs*
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Originally posted by Bling
Straight out tell her? It's a sensitive issue... what's a nice way to construct it?
okayz "DAMN GIRL U SMELL!"

or "do u smell somethang?"

or "wuts that smell?"

or when u go up to her just squint ur eyes at her, make sure she sees ur eyes. she askes wuts wrong? u say somethang smells. etc etc etc.
 
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