"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Major Depressive Disorder (MDD)

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Hey there sosuavers, its been a while, recently one of my friend (which is a girl) saying she had these disorder.
here's the symptom looks like,


  • depressed mood
  • diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities
  • significant weight loss or gain or an increase or decrease in appetite
  • insomnia or hypersomnia
  • psychomotor agitation or retardation
  • fatigue or loss of energy
  • feeling worthless or excessive or inappropriate guilt
  • diminished ability to concentrate or indecisiveness
  • recurrent thoughts of death, suicidal ideation, or a suicide attempt
If anyone has any idea's , experience or any encounter about this disorder i'm gladly have all ear's.

thank you.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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These are all fairly common psychological symptoms of modern society

Tell her to get off social media , establish a healthy diet and sleep routine , start journalling , walking / hiking , meditation

No alcohol for at least 6 weeks

Maybe get a pet
 

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These are all fairly common psychological symptoms of modern society

Tell her to get off social media , establish a healthy diet and sleep routine , start journalling , walking / hiking , meditation

No alcohol for at least 6 weeks

Maybe get a pet
She has been in therapy for 2 years which i up mostly respect her for recognize her own behavior, many just doesn't and became worst.
the most annoying part is her diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities, and that include sex that could wane out of no where.. pheww that svcks. and promiscuity often might came along when she got bored. but these are not even nearly as close as BPD which are truly the Queen on crazies.
 
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