"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Major Depressive Disorder (MDD)

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Hey there sosuavers, its been a while, recently one of my friend (which is a girl) saying she had these disorder.
here's the symptom looks like,


  • depressed mood
  • diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities
  • significant weight loss or gain or an increase or decrease in appetite
  • insomnia or hypersomnia
  • psychomotor agitation or retardation
  • fatigue or loss of energy
  • feeling worthless or excessive or inappropriate guilt
  • diminished ability to concentrate or indecisiveness
  • recurrent thoughts of death, suicidal ideation, or a suicide attempt
If anyone has any idea's , experience or any encounter about this disorder i'm gladly have all ear's.

thank you.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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These are all fairly common psychological symptoms of modern society

Tell her to get off social media , establish a healthy diet and sleep routine , start journalling , walking / hiking , meditation

No alcohol for at least 6 weeks

Maybe get a pet
 

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These are all fairly common psychological symptoms of modern society

Tell her to get off social media , establish a healthy diet and sleep routine , start journalling , walking / hiking , meditation

No alcohol for at least 6 weeks

Maybe get a pet
She has been in therapy for 2 years which i up mostly respect her for recognize her own behavior, many just doesn't and became worst.
the most annoying part is her diminished interest or pleasure in almost all activities, and that include sex that could wane out of no where.. pheww that svcks. and promiscuity often might came along when she got bored. but these are not even nearly as close as BPD which are truly the Queen on crazies.
 
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