Well the othernight I went swing dancing and for some reason I did everything smooth I communicated with lots of girls and danced with a lot more then usual. By the end of the night I could see that lots of girls were looking at me while I was dancing and some even asked me to dance, which usually does not happen. When it got almost near the end I had girls leaning on me and all around me, I need to work on my kino more but other then that I had a pretty big confidence boost that night and will help me later on.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Major confidence boost
- Thread starter dee-dub
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Do a search for Swing Dancing in your area. A lot of small places offer weekly free lesson/dances for people to learn.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
goodwork! ya its just a swing club that we go to that has mostly collage/university aged people at it, dose a short lesson before hand then just free danceing and socializing from 830 till 11pm