Well the othernight I went swing dancing and for some reason I did everything smooth I communicated with lots of girls and danced with a lot more then usual. By the end of the night I could see that lots of girls were looking at me while I was dancing and some even asked me to dance, which usually does not happen. When it got almost near the end I had girls leaning on me and all around me, I need to work on my kino more but other then that I had a pretty big confidence boost that night and will help me later on.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Major confidence boost
- Thread starter dee-dub
- Start date
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Do a search for Swing Dancing in your area. A lot of small places offer weekly free lesson/dances for people to learn.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
goodwork! ya its just a swing club that we go to that has mostly collage/university aged people at it, dose a short lesson before hand then just free danceing and socializing from 830 till 11pm