Well the othernight I went swing dancing and for some reason I did everything smooth I communicated with lots of girls and danced with a lot more then usual. By the end of the night I could see that lots of girls were looking at me while I was dancing and some even asked me to dance, which usually does not happen. When it got almost near the end I had girls leaning on me and all around me, I need to work on my kino more but other then that I had a pretty big confidence boost that night and will help me later on.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Major confidence boost
- Thread starter dee-dub
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Furyguy
Senior Don Juan
Do a search for Swing Dancing in your area. A lot of small places offer weekly free lesson/dances for people to learn.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
If you're in college, your school probably has a club that will teach you, too.
Bryce556
Senior Don Juan
goodwork! ya its just a swing club that we go to that has mostly collage/university aged people at it, dose a short lesson before hand then just free danceing and socializing from 830 till 11pm