"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Maintaining relationships & sexual chemistry when in the military?

SlpStrm

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My game relies heavily on body language and touch to create tension and anticipation, and women are more sexual, intimate and open when I'm there. Over the phone it's more like talking to a friend they seem a lot more conservative, probably because you can't see reactions or use body language to guage interest. So what is the most effective way to maintain sexual tension and intimacy when work pulls me all over the place? I'm in the service so I spend months away from friends and family.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Relationships and the military do not mix, unless you're in the guard. If you're active duty, no dice.

When I was in the Marines, I would see guys dating and marrying these girls from back home, only to go to the atm and discover they had been wiped out. And the cheating...

Hell man I don't mean to be a negative Nell, but there are many strong reasons why a man should abstain from LDRs. Read "Iron Rules of Tomassi" regarding LDRs, his clinical diagnosis is priceless.
 
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