My game relies heavily on body language and touch to create tension and anticipation, and women are more sexual, intimate and open when I'm there. Over the phone it's more like talking to a friend they seem a lot more conservative, probably because you can't see reactions or use body language to guage interest. So what is the most effective way to maintain sexual tension and intimacy when work pulls me all over the place? I'm in the service so I spend months away from friends and family.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Maintaining relationships & sexual chemistry when in the military?
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