"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Maintaining relationships & sexual chemistry when in the military?

SlpStrm

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My game relies heavily on body language and touch to create tension and anticipation, and women are more sexual, intimate and open when I'm there. Over the phone it's more like talking to a friend they seem a lot more conservative, probably because you can't see reactions or use body language to guage interest. So what is the most effective way to maintain sexual tension and intimacy when work pulls me all over the place? I'm in the service so I spend months away from friends and family.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Julius_Seizeher

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Relationships and the military do not mix, unless you're in the guard. If you're active duty, no dice.

When I was in the Marines, I would see guys dating and marrying these girls from back home, only to go to the atm and discover they had been wiped out. And the cheating...

Hell man I don't mean to be a negative Nell, but there are many strong reasons why a man should abstain from LDRs. Read "Iron Rules of Tomassi" regarding LDRs, his clinical diagnosis is priceless.
 
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