Jager
Senior Don Juan
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This, in addition to what Spaz and stormrider posted.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Maintaining Frame
- Thread starter bacchus
- Start date
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
From what you describe, she could be with covert narcissistic traits.. I tried one of those psychos, they will slowly try to erode your self worth. Like a frog in boiling water.. they start slow, and hope you don't have power enough to break free, after long periods of covert demeaning, hot and cold behavior.. this fits the 6 you describe too.. they are crazy in bed. And know how to talk to your ego. Learn how to test her, and see if she fits the criteria.
Respond don't react..
You can have all the frame in the world, be the supreme man.. and these psychos are still likely to get under your skin..
Test her, fvck her... mind fvck her if she is a narc.. they can't handle when you do a 180 on them.. they go completly off the rail's
Good fvck.. not good luck
Respond don't react..
You can have all the frame in the world, be the supreme man.. and these psychos are still likely to get under your skin..
Test her, fvck her... mind fvck her if she is a narc.. they can't handle when you do a 180 on them.. they go completly off the rail's
Good fvck.. not good luck