"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Maintaining composure

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Once in a while, a dream girl will be convinced that she met you by fate, and that you are the man of her dreams.

What if she's a real beauty? What if it really does seem like fate? It's too easy to fall for her and blow it by confessing your love. How do you maintain control with a girl who already loves you when you secretly love her?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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If this isn't pedestaling....I don't know what is.
 
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This happens when the man does not have enough experience with women, and he latches on HARD to the first one to give him some real attention. It's a bad way to start a relationship and it will not last long. My advice would be for the man to date other women and get some experience so he isn't so overly sensitive to getting a little bit of female attention.
 
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Well if she loves you, you only have to act: touch her in a sexual matter, talk about sex, lean in for the kiss and you'll be fine. On this case you can't blow it... she loves you already right ?

But like Captain writes: Don't be too sensitive. You gotta lead, always if not the relationship will end as fast as a pack of gum
 
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I have plenty of experience (I'm 40 and single for godsake), but as girls reach the HB9+ category, I still tend to revert to my old inner wuss. Doesn't everyone have a breaking point?

From "The Art of Seduction" (Greene) - "Never rush into the arms of someone who appears willing. Do not make the mistake of overcrowding your target. Don't think they'll lose interest if you don't act fast, the opposite is true. Give them space. This is even more important when the target is having an effect on you."
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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