Maintaining composure

[bigneil]

Once in a while, a dream girl will be convinced that she met you by fate, and that you are the man of her dreams.

What if she's a real beauty? What if it really does seem like fate? It's too easy to fall for her and blow it by confessing your love. How do you maintain control with a girl who already loves you when you secretly love her?

 

[Tiguere]

If this isn't pedestaling....I don't know what is.

 

[Captain]

This happens when the man does not have enough experience with women, and he latches on HARD to the first one to give him some real attention. It's a bad way to start a relationship and it will not last long. My advice would be for the man to date other women and get some experience so he isn't so overly sensitive to getting a little bit of female attention.

 

[badboyjmm]

Well if she loves you, you only have to act: touch her in a sexual matter, talk about sex, lean in for the kiss and you'll be fine. On this case you can't blow it... she loves you already right ?

But like Captain writes: Don't be too sensitive. You gotta lead, always if not the relationship will end as fast as a pack of gum

 

[bigneil]

I have plenty of experience (I'm 40 and single for godsake), but as girls reach the HB9+ category, I still tend to revert to my old inner wuss. Doesn't everyone have a breaking point?

From "The Art of Seduction" (Greene) - "Never rush into the arms of someone who appears willing. Do not make the mistake of overcrowding your target. Don't think they'll lose interest if you don't act fast, the opposite is true. Give them space. This is even more important when the target is having an effect on you."