"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Maintaining a connection... help me out please!

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No-one seemed to want to read the original post so I'm going to give you the "Coles Notes" version because I need some answers. Here's my initial post if anyone wants the whole story:
http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=149865

Short version:

- I'm from Ontario. A couple weeks ago I went out East for about a week for a competition.
- I hooked up with an HB 9 there (where HB 10s don't exist in my book), spent two nights with her, talked, had sex. She was one of the most beautiful AND nicest/easiest to talk to girls I've ever met. I would definitely date her without hesitation if we lived close to each other. Total babe and totally cool on top of it! :up:
- She comes to Ontario from time to time because she has family here. Likewise, I have this competition out East yearly.
- Added her on Facebook. Haven't messaged her since I last saw her.

Questions:

How do I maintain this connection using Facebook so I can see her when I get the opportunity?
- How do I make sure that I hook up with this girl again when she comes to Ontario, or when I go out East?
- Do I ignore her for long periods (months) at a time?
- Do I message her every so often? If so, HOW OFTEN?
- What exactly should I message her about? What should I ask her/tell her?

Thanks!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Yes you can. Get a router that is wireless but also has a few ethernet connections and you can leave your desktop linked via ethernet and then configure the wireless for any other computer that has a wireless card.
 
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Seriously dudes, someone's got to have some advice, not that hard a question is it?
 
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Tee

I assume you have some decent conversation with her so use it to keep contact with her.

ex: hey there is your favourite band in town, I was thinking about u and if you in town we can go together..

Her hobbies, food, movies, sport etc...just touch base with her once a while bu using her interest or common interest between both if u as a lifeline.

Keep it light with touch of comedy will go a long way.
 
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Sounds like the right idea... I'm wondering how often I should make contact though, seeing as we're half a country away...


true romance said:
Tee

I assume you have some decent conversation with her so use it to keep contact with her.

ex: hey there is your favourite band in town, I was thinking about u and if you in town we can go together..

Her hobbies, food, movies, sport etc...just touch base with her once a while bu using her interest or common interest between both if u as a lifeline.

Keep it light with touch of comedy will go a long way.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

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Yes you can may,Get a router that is wireless but also has a few ethernet connections and you can leave your desktop linked via ethernet and then configure the wireless for any other computer that has a wireless card.



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