"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Made out with lame girl

Agent Zero

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Just met a girl online, we went to Starbucks first for like half an hour, then asked her back to my place. She was like the lamest girl ever. When I first called her, everything I said she just said "yeah" or like "that's okay" when I asked her stuff. She was quiet as **** and I am a quiet guy myself. But she kept agreeing to the stuff I suggested like coming back to my place. So we came back here and sat on the couch not touching for like 10 minutes, then I got up and went to the bathroom, and I noticed she had inched closer to me so I knew I was in and sat down next to her. Gave her a back massage with her on my lap, made out with her, rubbed her ***** through her pants, caressed her breasts through her shirt, but she never let me take off any of her clothes. I took off my shirt, but that's it. After a while I got bored of it cause she was boring and wasn't even letting me hit it. I don't think I even want to mess around with boring girls anymore cause even if I get some I don't feel satisfied. The girl has to have a personality. It's okay to me if a girl is uncomfortable at first, but I wasn't pushy at all and kept asking if she was comfortable and she wouldn't open up. She was rigid even when we were making out. Bad kisser too. All the girls in their early 20s I have kissed have sucked at it. I am only 25 so I hope I'm a decent kisser, but the older women are such better kissers.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Obsidian

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i was (semi-)dating a really quiet girl once, too, so I know what you mean. I prefer chattier people to hang with, for both guys and girls

and come to think of it, I found that one off of myspace...
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Hey Agent Zero, i agree quiet girls can be boring if they dont' say anything, shy girls are only the exception if they want to open up, but if they refuse to...not worth...atleast u got to cope and feel a bit and make out...and yea, i bet older women do make better kissers :).
 
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