"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Made out with lame girl

Agent Zero

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Just met a girl online, we went to Starbucks first for like half an hour, then asked her back to my place. She was like the lamest girl ever. When I first called her, everything I said she just said "yeah" or like "that's okay" when I asked her stuff. She was quiet as **** and I am a quiet guy myself. But she kept agreeing to the stuff I suggested like coming back to my place. So we came back here and sat on the couch not touching for like 10 minutes, then I got up and went to the bathroom, and I noticed she had inched closer to me so I knew I was in and sat down next to her. Gave her a back massage with her on my lap, made out with her, rubbed her ***** through her pants, caressed her breasts through her shirt, but she never let me take off any of her clothes. I took off my shirt, but that's it. After a while I got bored of it cause she was boring and wasn't even letting me hit it. I don't think I even want to mess around with boring girls anymore cause even if I get some I don't feel satisfied. The girl has to have a personality. It's okay to me if a girl is uncomfortable at first, but I wasn't pushy at all and kept asking if she was comfortable and she wouldn't open up. She was rigid even when we were making out. Bad kisser too. All the girls in their early 20s I have kissed have sucked at it. I am only 25 so I hope I'm a decent kisser, but the older women are such better kissers.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Obsidian

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i was (semi-)dating a really quiet girl once, too, so I know what you mean. I prefer chattier people to hang with, for both guys and girls

and come to think of it, I found that one off of myspace...
 

DonJoseCantosie

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Hey Agent Zero, i agree quiet girls can be boring if they dont' say anything, shy girls are only the exception if they want to open up, but if they refuse to...not worth...atleast u got to cope and feel a bit and make out...and yea, i bet older women do make better kissers :).
 
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