“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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made out with friend at party; now I want more

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we went to a club at the big city close to us, got into the VIP, started doing body shots off one girl/friend Asian HB8.5, then under the cheering of the other girls (and guy) made out with her.

Now this girl has always given me signs of interest (at least since we started school in august), but i just thought it was too messy to sleep with her. She is quite a party girl and would probably be up for a casual thing, so now I do want to do her. I have the impression that I always had some sort of upper hand just by holding back, and I want to keep this advantage.

Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

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salvosom said:
Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
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That, my friend, was NOT edgy.
 
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salvosom said:
we went to a club at the big city close to us, got into the VIP, started doing body shots off one girl/friend Asian HB8.5, then under the cheering of the other girls (and guy) made out with her.

Now this girl has always given me signs of interest (at least since we started school in august), but i just thought it was too messy to sleep with her. She is quite a party girl and would probably be up for a casual thing, so now I do want to do her. I have the impression that I always had some sort of upper hand just by holding back, and I want to keep this advantage.

Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
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Are you really 26?
 
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