"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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made out with friend at party; now I want more

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we went to a club at the big city close to us, got into the VIP, started doing body shots off one girl/friend Asian HB8.5, then under the cheering of the other girls (and guy) made out with her.

Now this girl has always given me signs of interest (at least since we started school in august), but i just thought it was too messy to sleep with her. She is quite a party girl and would probably be up for a casual thing, so now I do want to do her. I have the impression that I always had some sort of upper hand just by holding back, and I want to keep this advantage.

Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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salvosom said:
Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
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That, my friend, was NOT edgy.
 
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salvosom said:
we went to a club at the big city close to us, got into the VIP, started doing body shots off one girl/friend Asian HB8.5, then under the cheering of the other girls (and guy) made out with her.

Now this girl has always given me signs of interest (at least since we started school in august), but i just thought it was too messy to sleep with her. She is quite a party girl and would probably be up for a casual thing, so now I do want to do her. I have the impression that I always had some sort of upper hand just by holding back, and I want to keep this advantage.

Now after we made out, she comes up to me and asks if we're still friends, and I answer "yes, but can we still make out sometime?" and she says "sure!". I couldn't do more that night because of all the people who were with us

Any ideas how I could escalate this without losing my edge ? Direct suggestion? ask her out? etc.. ? ideas welcome!
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Are you really 26?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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