"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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made out with a girl and whatsapp

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Hello.

I made out twice with this girl who lives in another city, 500km away, she was visiting my city with some friends, and two days before that we made out one night, and went to the beach the next day, made out there...she said that she'd like to stay here with me etc.

Now we've been talking a couple of times via whatssapp. Today she initiated the chat (like usually) and since me and my friends are planning a trip to her city and some others, I said to her: 'you know I may be visiting your city.'
to what she did not reply and kept talking. We talked for an our with many pauses for a couple of minutes etc (you know how whatsapp works). Kept it funy, light, but maybe to light. She did not ask me any personal questions, neither did I ask her. Just silly funy stuff.

Now, I believe she did not comment on my anouncement ( I got bit dissapointed lol) because either of these:

A) She's back with her ex (they broke up four months ago) so she has no interest.
B) She has no interest in me now just because.
C) Test. (likely)

I did not say it again during our chat, or asked her if she read me, and since the conversation was 'a bit' boring, when I said bye she said: hey, I'm trying to study but I'll bother you later ^^


P.S.

Could it be that she missed what I wrote? about me going there? (I doubt it)
now I am not gonna say it twice, I'll wait to see if she reminds it, or re reads or whatever, and if she does not, once I'm in her city I may text her to let her know...? I'm going in four weeks.

She's an 8.


tips? opinions?

Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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She might be missed it, this apps don't work some time
bring it while you were talking on the phone not texting. See how it goes!
 
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yeah, ???

I find it weird that all my messages were delivered ok but this one....

steps to proceed? remind her next time we talk? remind her once im in her city?
 
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pyros said:
yeah, ???

I find it weird that all my messages were delivered ok but this one....

steps to proceed? remind her next time we talk? remind her once im in her city?
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Text her when you're in the city.

She definitely saw that you said you're going to be there. If there's anything that women are good at, it's noticing every little detail in your communication with them (so they can throw it in your face at a later time).

Either way, I wouldn't put a lot of effort into this one. Making out with a girl isn't a big deal. They do that sh*t out of boredom. If she wants to see you, she'll find a way to show up.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I just wanted to update this thread:

IN the end, we met, made out a lot etc, rubbed her tits, but nothing else happened because:
1. We did not have anywhere private to go
2. I did not push for sex (I was too "inactive" at that time)

She asked me when we were gonna meet again, I said that I may go to her city in a month...she looked disapointed.

Its been two years or so and we have not spoken again, eventhough I have her on FB.
 
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