Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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made out with a girl and whatsapp

pyros

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Hello.

I made out twice with this girl who lives in another city, 500km away, she was visiting my city with some friends, and two days before that we made out one night, and went to the beach the next day, made out there...she said that she'd like to stay here with me etc.

Now we've been talking a couple of times via whatssapp. Today she initiated the chat (like usually) and since me and my friends are planning a trip to her city and some others, I said to her: 'you know I may be visiting your city.'
to what she did not reply and kept talking. We talked for an our with many pauses for a couple of minutes etc (you know how whatsapp works). Kept it funy, light, but maybe to light. She did not ask me any personal questions, neither did I ask her. Just silly funy stuff.

Now, I believe she did not comment on my anouncement ( I got bit dissapointed lol) because either of these:

A) She's back with her ex (they broke up four months ago) so she has no interest.
B) She has no interest in me now just because.
C) Test. (likely)

I did not say it again during our chat, or asked her if she read me, and since the conversation was 'a bit' boring, when I said bye she said: hey, I'm trying to study but I'll bother you later ^^


P.S.

Could it be that she missed what I wrote? about me going there? (I doubt it)
now I am not gonna say it twice, I'll wait to see if she reminds it, or re reads or whatever, and if she does not, once I'm in her city I may text her to let her know...? I'm going in four weeks.

She's an 8.


tips? opinions?

Thank youuuuuuuuuuuuuuuuu.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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She might be missed it, this apps don't work some time
bring it while you were talking on the phone not texting. See how it goes!
 

pyros

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yeah, ???

I find it weird that all my messages were delivered ok but this one....

steps to proceed? remind her next time we talk? remind her once im in her city?
 

Mantis Toboggan

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pyros said:
yeah, ???

I find it weird that all my messages were delivered ok but this one....

steps to proceed? remind her next time we talk? remind her once im in her city?
Text her when you're in the city.

She definitely saw that you said you're going to be there. If there's anything that women are good at, it's noticing every little detail in your communication with them (so they can throw it in your face at a later time).

Either way, I wouldn't put a lot of effort into this one. Making out with a girl isn't a big deal. They do that sh*t out of boredom. If she wants to see you, she'll find a way to show up.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pyros

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I just wanted to update this thread:

IN the end, we met, made out a lot etc, rubbed her tits, but nothing else happened because:
1. We did not have anywhere private to go
2. I did not push for sex (I was too "inactive" at that time)

She asked me when we were gonna meet again, I said that I may go to her city in a month...she looked disapointed.

Its been two years or so and we have not spoken again, eventhough I have her on FB.
 
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