"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Made big mistakes on a date

pgbiswas79

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I met this girl online. she was impressed wid my pics and thoughts (whtever). I spoke wid her a lot too coz. She is an indian but looks like an italian. i got really nervous when we first met.
I did everything wrong. This is wht i did.

Dont ever do this:
1. i bought her the most expensive movie ticket (lounge) showing i was needy.
2. i didnt dress up well as it was a sunday morning date and i was totally jetlagged. (From australia to india)

3. To add to this she was the one was touching my hands and carressing them under the pretext of knowing astrology, while i was doing nothing. wht a bum i was. She fondled wid my keys etc. do u need more signs of interest ?

4. I couldnt even maintain proper eye contact wid her. Loooser !

5. and the posture was not tht gr8 too as i was apprehnsive abt myself.


This was my first date after 5 yrs as i had become a complete computer geek.
and then i found this site and am making changes to my daily schedule and am doing things to increase my confidence (like talking to girls/women) I always had a nice body but i am doing some real exercises to get my adrenaline gng and ma friends it works.

and u know wht i didnt like tht girl too much either though i could have laid her easily.

I will be meeting this other girl soon who i like. she is conservative, tall and nice looking (not gr8) but i like her unassuming nature and i am looking after a LTR or even marriage and not just a lay. She is a typical conservative indian girl who didnt have ne b/f before me.

Wish me luck and thrown in some advices too.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Your personality seems to be the type that prefers conservative women versus fast loose women - you are not suddenly going to change, personality wise, after 27 years of values instilled in you! I like conservative women myself and don't like hors!!!

How are the girls in India - are they mostly conservative?? I know public affection in India is not looked upon favorably - right??
 
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try again in 5 years
 
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