"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Made big mistakes on a date

pgbiswas79

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I met this girl online. she was impressed wid my pics and thoughts (whtever). I spoke wid her a lot too coz. She is an indian but looks like an italian. i got really nervous when we first met.
I did everything wrong. This is wht i did.

Dont ever do this:
1. i bought her the most expensive movie ticket (lounge) showing i was needy.
2. i didnt dress up well as it was a sunday morning date and i was totally jetlagged. (From australia to india)

3. To add to this she was the one was touching my hands and carressing them under the pretext of knowing astrology, while i was doing nothing. wht a bum i was. She fondled wid my keys etc. do u need more signs of interest ?

4. I couldnt even maintain proper eye contact wid her. Loooser !

5. and the posture was not tht gr8 too as i was apprehnsive abt myself.


This was my first date after 5 yrs as i had become a complete computer geek.
and then i found this site and am making changes to my daily schedule and am doing things to increase my confidence (like talking to girls/women) I always had a nice body but i am doing some real exercises to get my adrenaline gng and ma friends it works.

and u know wht i didnt like tht girl too much either though i could have laid her easily.

I will be meeting this other girl soon who i like. she is conservative, tall and nice looking (not gr8) but i like her unassuming nature and i am looking after a LTR or even marriage and not just a lay. She is a typical conservative indian girl who didnt have ne b/f before me.

Wish me luck and thrown in some advices too.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Your personality seems to be the type that prefers conservative women versus fast loose women - you are not suddenly going to change, personality wise, after 27 years of values instilled in you! I like conservative women myself and don't like hors!!!

How are the girls in India - are they mostly conservative?? I know public affection in India is not looked upon favorably - right??
 
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try again in 5 years
 
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