"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Made big mistakes on a date

pgbiswas79

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I met this girl online. she was impressed wid my pics and thoughts (whtever). I spoke wid her a lot too coz. She is an indian but looks like an italian. i got really nervous when we first met.
I did everything wrong. This is wht i did.

Dont ever do this:
1. i bought her the most expensive movie ticket (lounge) showing i was needy.
2. i didnt dress up well as it was a sunday morning date and i was totally jetlagged. (From australia to india)

3. To add to this she was the one was touching my hands and carressing them under the pretext of knowing astrology, while i was doing nothing. wht a bum i was. She fondled wid my keys etc. do u need more signs of interest ?

4. I couldnt even maintain proper eye contact wid her. Loooser !

5. and the posture was not tht gr8 too as i was apprehnsive abt myself.


This was my first date after 5 yrs as i had become a complete computer geek.
and then i found this site and am making changes to my daily schedule and am doing things to increase my confidence (like talking to girls/women) I always had a nice body but i am doing some real exercises to get my adrenaline gng and ma friends it works.

and u know wht i didnt like tht girl too much either though i could have laid her easily.

I will be meeting this other girl soon who i like. she is conservative, tall and nice looking (not gr8) but i like her unassuming nature and i am looking after a LTR or even marriage and not just a lay. She is a typical conservative indian girl who didnt have ne b/f before me.

Wish me luck and thrown in some advices too.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Your personality seems to be the type that prefers conservative women versus fast loose women - you are not suddenly going to change, personality wise, after 27 years of values instilled in you! I like conservative women myself and don't like hors!!!

How are the girls in India - are they mostly conservative?? I know public affection in India is not looked upon favorably - right??
 
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try again in 5 years
 
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