SeymourCake
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15 ugly wh0res wanna meet me. Give me some tips on PoF.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Made a PoF account two days ago
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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
It's a numbers game so message as many people as you can.
Meet me doesn't mean sh*t. It's basically just a rate my pictures game so if a fine woman wants to "meet you" and yet she ignores your message, don't feel bad about it.
There are tons of fake accounts there run by lonely men in their basements so be very careful. What I like to do is run their picture through a quick Google image search to make sure it is real.
You are up against a sh*t load of competition so bring your A++++++ game. No "hey how u doing?" or "how r u".
After you build a rapport in conversation, try to move it to texting as soon as possible.
If you start chatting with a woman and she stops responding all of a sudden, don't feel bad. They get a sh*t ton of messages every hour. I'm not even talking about daily. Your message more than likely got lost in the swarm of losers and weirdos messaging her. What I like to do is wait about two or three days and reinforce my question or message. Like if my last message was "How do you like it in New York?" Three days later, I send another message saying "I guess you don't like much." It's just a slight way to nudge her. Don't message her moaning or inquiring about why she didn't respond. It's not attractive.
Make your profile interesting and use attractive pictures.
No shirtless or bathroom pictures. If you have to use selfies, make sure they're outdoors. You get better lighting there.
Fill out your about me with things beside your name or age or what you're doing. Be vague but interesting.
Meet me doesn't mean sh*t. It's basically just a rate my pictures game so if a fine woman wants to "meet you" and yet she ignores your message, don't feel bad about it.
There are tons of fake accounts there run by lonely men in their basements so be very careful. What I like to do is run their picture through a quick Google image search to make sure it is real.
You are up against a sh*t load of competition so bring your A++++++ game. No "hey how u doing?" or "how r u".
After you build a rapport in conversation, try to move it to texting as soon as possible.
If you start chatting with a woman and she stops responding all of a sudden, don't feel bad. They get a sh*t ton of messages every hour. I'm not even talking about daily. Your message more than likely got lost in the swarm of losers and weirdos messaging her. What I like to do is wait about two or three days and reinforce my question or message. Like if my last message was "How do you like it in New York?" Three days later, I send another message saying "I guess you don't like much." It's just a slight way to nudge her. Don't message her moaning or inquiring about why she didn't respond. It's not attractive.
Make your profile interesting and use attractive pictures.
No shirtless or bathroom pictures. If you have to use selfies, make sure they're outdoors. You get better lighting there.
Fill out your about me with things beside your name or age or what you're doing. Be vague but interesting.
Always funny when I get messaged by a whale something like, "how r u?" The level of game is atonishing. You can tell they think they're hot **** and expect me to be thankful I received a message from them. I like to respond back with something minimal like, "Good, good" just to see what happens. Usually don't hear back, or if I do their next message is something even more retarded like, "so wat up?". They seem to be under the impression I'm going to pick up the conversation for them and stroke their ego... riiiight.
SeymourCake
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Welp, it seems like I was removed from the database. It was fun while it lasted.
Peaks&Valleys
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Nah, the best one is: "How was your weekend?"Yewki said:
I used to respond with: "It was okay, spent it in jail. I'm out now so that's good. How was yours?"
I'm sure you'll treasure those memories for a life time.SeymoreCake said:
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Jair213
Master Don Juan
ahahahahahh im ma use that one!Peaks&Valleys said: