"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Leetsauce

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Was out clubbing with friends
One of my friends friends gives me ioi
I go for it, we dance, we make out

Now she's trying to make contact with me. I don't want to pursue right now, and I don't know how to respond without incurring a flurry of drama with the friends I currently go out with. She's only in town for a week or so, but that's cuz we're both in college. We live in the same country (both of us are international).

Wat do.

Thanks for the advice in advanced.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TillTheEndOfTime

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You don't know what to do? lol

Have you not learned from the BS of women? Give her the same canned lines and excuses.

You respect the friendship too much, you're not ready for dating...and my PERSONAL favourite of ALL time, tell her that she's "too good" for you.......:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
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