"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

Made a mistake

L

Leetsauce

New Member
Joined
Oct 9, 2011
Messages
7
Reaction score
0
Was out clubbing with friends
One of my friends friends gives me ioi
I go for it, we dance, we make out

Now she's trying to make contact with me. I don't want to pursue right now, and I don't know how to respond without incurring a flurry of drama with the friends I currently go out with. She's only in town for a week or so, but that's cuz we're both in college. We live in the same country (both of us are international).

Wat do.

Thanks for the advice in advanced.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

T

TillTheEndOfTime

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 4, 2004
Messages
1,930
Reaction score
59
You don't know what to do? lol

Have you not learned from the BS of women? Give her the same canned lines and excuses.

You respect the friendship too much, you're not ready for dating...and my PERSONAL favourite of ALL time, tell her that she's "too good" for you.......:crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup: :crackup:
 
You must log in or register to reply here.
22 Rules for Massive Success With Women
Top