"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Made a fake account on a dating site as a female...

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...and got a TON of response in just 1 or 2 hours. Wow. And many of these guys are really built. They seem like really cool dudes.

I never really realized how bad the competition was.

For the profile, I filled out very little info, made it as boring as possible. Under "you should message me if" I put, "You want to get shot down." And I took an OK pic from hotornot.

This is fun, watching all these random dudes send me pick-up lines:)
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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This is great entertainment, lol.

I like this exchange:

I saw you on here and have to say that you look amazing and seem cool enough from what little you wrote. Id love to chat and get to know you?? Hope I hear from you.

hey...nothing much man, just checking out different pages :]

fun...I am laying in bed exhausted. went camping in the 20 degree weather last night. it was fun but i got no sleep. what are you doing tonight?

i dunno...its pretty cold out :]

yeah. Im laying in bed watching movies. relaxing. wish i knew you better. love to have you join me!


hahaha....from a website straight to teh bedroom, huh? i'm not quite that loose, thanks very much

haha...i dont sleep with someone on a first day. i mean to have someone to cuddle and watch movies with silly.
my room mates are using my tv downstairs, luckily i got a decent one in my room. so tell me about yourself and what you're looking for on here?

you sound desperate to me:)
 

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Darth said:
...and got a TON of response in just 1 or 2 hours. Wow. And many of these guys are really built. They seem like really cool dudes.

I never really realized how bad the competition was.

For the profile, I filled out very little info, made it as boring as possible. Under "you should message me if" I put, "You want to get shot down." And I took an OK pic from hotornot.

This is fun, watching all these random dudes send me pick-up lines:)
It seems like everyone is doing this experiment. I might do this experiment myself. It seems like we all come to the same conclusion that competion is stiff. Women don't have to do much work to get any attention.
 

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It seems like everyone is doing this experiment. I might do this experiment myself. It seems like we all come to the same conclusion that competion is stiff. Women don't have to do much work to get any attention.

Really? Why? After the first one or two guys did it, there was no reason for anyone else to do it. You already know the competition is stiff and you gotta step your game up on all fronts. Spend that time working on your life instead of being a fake female.
 

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It's not really a big deal...this is a one night thing. But it's still amazing to read some of these responses. I'm getting a lot of insight as to what NOT to do.

But it's true- I put up a picture of an OK female, with no ambitions ("i like to party, drink, dance, smoke. uhm.. that's about it"), and look at all these good looking guys responding within minutes of my post.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Try your experiment with a "10" looking guy. Females are easy. Watch how many females respond to the "10" guy. It's hilarious.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Try your experiment with a "10" looking guy. Females are easy. Watch how many females respond to the "10" guy. It's hilarious.
Zero so far.
 

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Zero so far.

Where are you located? The tri-state area it worked like a charm.

If you are using "modeling" obviously fake pictures they'll catch on though. You need real looking photos not "posed" for.
 

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Everybody who does online dating should set up some fake accounts, both as men and as women. It's really educational. If you kind of "put yourself in a woman's shoes" and see what kind of interactions that women get on the 'net, it's extremely interesting and will allow you to become better at distinguishing yourself from the crowd.
 

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Women even average ones get alot of emails. It's better to test as a "10" in men's looks. That way you'll see forst hand at how easy the responses are and the push for conversation with questions from females.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I made a profile with some chubby latina I knew online, she was about a 6

I had 10+ messages per day, and the most disgusting message was one from an owner of a cooperation that offered me $500 to spend freely at the casino...he said it wasn't even a date, he just wanted to spend time

When you actually do the POF female test, you can't help but be horrified at the disparity in the dating game...a male's profile will get maybe 1 message a month. Online dating is mirrored in reality as well...
 

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I tought woman did not often initate contact! At least not truly feminine woman. You must come to them! Comments?

But yeah I imagine if you put a super hot guy model some 10 could say hello to you... This is just curiosity talking, human beings are curious creatures, we must know and have solve the mystery somtimes, it intrigues us. "Natural DJS", if they exist, know this and are mysterious. This site has tought us to use this method sometimes... to grab peoples attention, incorporate mystery. It can be a powerful tool can it not? It doesn't have to be in pickup, sometimes in a interview or a presentation, mystery is a powerful tool sometimes isn't it? But I wouldn't rely on it, if you know what I'm saying. I do know that talking too much can be a DHV. But I am not going to conduct this experiment myself.

I wonder what interresting conclusions we can take from this (making a fake woman profile) experiment , if there are any. But I would suspect so. Comments? Reply to this post. And I wonder if this is worth doing again for yourself, it has been done many times. Seems like a waste of time to me.

Edit: I wrote this before that last post. I didn't know it was like this. TIC, maybe she was a 6 to you, lets not forget that your 6 can be someone elses 9 or 10, right?
 

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I am amazed that you are amazed. Like it is something unusuall that average and ugly girls get so much attention on this "dating sites". They dont get allmost any attention in real life. Dating sites are only for their ego, and when they see good looking guy (10) they jump to grab a chance because that chance they will never have in reality. They dont "waste" time on good and average looking males on dating sites.
 

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Naughty Ninja said:
Women even average ones get alot of emails. It's better to test as a "10" in men's looks. That way you'll see forst hand at how easy the responses are and the push for conversation with questions from females.
I did this on POF and getting women from there was much easier! I tried this experiment with a female and she was a busty Hawaiian porn actress! You can imagine how much messages I got from it. I just watched them pickup lines flow in. This experiment is hilarious and the results are the same all over, Women get too many messages, and guys get too few replies. "10" men get the most messages out of men. For most guys on these sites, the odds are not in their favor. I used a real pic of me and put myself at age 45 to get more cougars and milfs. Photoshopping yourself to get a 6 pack is a big help.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Darth said:
...and got a TON of response in just 1 or 2 hours. Wow. And many of these guys are really built. They seem like really cool dudes.

I never really realized how bad the competition was.

For the profile, I filled out very little info, made it as boring as possible. Under "you should message me if" I put, "You want to get shot down." And I took an OK pic from hotornot.

This is fun, watching all these random dudes send me pick-up lines:)
dont get to addicted to the vicarious living cause you might decide to become a tranny for real..lol
 

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Chosen1 said:
It seems like everyone is doing this experiment. I might do this experiment myself. It seems like we all come to the same conclusion that competion is stiff. Women don't have to do much work to get any attention.
yup and thats why soo many men are becoming gay and turing into transvestites
 

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the reason men don't get responses is because all u guys control the hot women profiles lol
 

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You didn't post the picture of the woman so it's meaningless. Not everyone is trying to go after the super hot 8 or 9.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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