"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I been workin out for a while now, I barely see results. I don't know whatz wrong with me, maybe I'm not drinking to much water or something. When I go to the gym, I just do 3 sets and 20 reps of everything. My legs look a little different, but my arms kinda look the same, I ready to give up, but I can't give up. Anybody know what my problem is, or do I need to do something different, I know itz some experts in here that can help me out. I wanna be tough lookin too.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Cheiradawg

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Originally posted by Basketba1100
Oh yeah, are there any pills I can take, any that could help me?
yeah dbol
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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MrFitness880

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omg...

first, no dbol, that never should have been posted.

no pills at all. you dont even need to think about supplements now. my guess, your diet sucks and your workout could probably use some serious overhaul.

are you doing 20 continuous reps or doing a 20 rep rest pause set?

tell me as much as you can. dont worry about supplements yet
 

ScrewIt

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wow 20 reps of every workout/ every machine...

well dont worry i see that happen all the time to new members at the gym.

Just follow a workout routine and you'll be set , dont forget to adjust your diet too.
 

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Here's the routine I originally started out with:

(4x means 4 sets, 6-8 means 6 to 8 reps [meaning you can do at least 6 reps, but no more then 8])


Monday - Arms
4x 4-6 barbell curl
4x 6-8 preacher curl
4x 4-6 weighted dips (or just dips if you can't do weighted ones yet)
4x 6-8 cable tricep pressdowns
2x15 Reverse Wrist Curls
2x15 Wrist Curls

Tuesday - Legs
4x4-6 Squats
4x15 Standing Calf raises
4x6-8 Leg extensions
4x6-8 Hamstring extensions

Wed - Shoulders
(Your front lateral will get worked out enough through bench / millitary presses, no need to isolate it yet)
4x15 Shrugs
4x4-6 Arnold Press / Barbell Millitary Press (I'll alternate every week)
4x6-8 Side Lateral Raises
4x6-8 Rear Lateral Raises

Thur - Chest
4x 4-6 DB flat bench (use dumbells instead of barbells every 2nd week)
4x 4-6 DB incline bench (use dumbells instead of barbells every 2nd week)
4x 4-failure -Chest dips
4x 15, 12, 10, 8, 6 cable crossovers (pyramid the weight up)

Friday - Back
4x as many as you can - Pull ups (once you can do more then 10, get a dip belt and add some weight to it)
4x as many as you can - close grip chin ups (once you can do more then 10, get a dip belt and add some weight to it)
4x4-6 Deadlifts
4x4-6 One Arm Dumbell Row / Close-grip Tbar Row (alternate every week)

Abs every 2nd day. Do this for now:
4x 25 sets of reverse crunches (done slowly)
4x 25, 15, 10, 5 of machine crunches (increase the weight every set)


Eat lots of protein, supplement protein/glutamine after every workout, eat lots of carbs early in the day, and you will make good gains.
 

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And don't even touch D-Bol. You're way too inexperianced, and you don't know anything about it.
 

Centaurion

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go for test instead :p

anyways, i think he was just kidding about the dbol.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Poor results usually comes down to poor diet. If you're trying to gain weight, you should be eating all the right things in large quantities!

I followed Diesel's bulking diet almost exactly and I made some very fast gains.
 

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First of all dont worry cause you dont "see" no results. It takes years to build a muscular body (im not even talking about really huge muscles, but rather about the body of a rather muscular bball player or something). Even if you had done anything right youd probably barely "see" any results after working out for a couple of months. I mean its not gonna take you a decade if you do everything right but dont expect to have a nice built body before 3 years of working out (youll be able to keep this body for mad years though so its a good investment isnt it?;)).

I havent read everything but 20 reps is definetly too much. You gotta user heavier weights that u wont be able to lift more than 6-8 times for the first set...plus you need to get about 1g of protein per lbs of bodyweight (try to get them through food and drinks like milk, chicken and everything...besides theres soem protein in every food u eat so its not as hard as it might sound...in case u get it all from your food youll most likely consume enough calories too...cause you also need to consume more calories than you burn if u wanna gain weight).

so let me give u another good piece of advice which might be pretty helpful to you (and i hope nobodys gonna flame me for saying this like the 5th time on here). You dont need to work out (properly) for 1 years or more before even knowing if youre gonna be able to pack on any weight or whateva..... you gotta know that if youre able to lift heavier weights youre muscles WILL grow. Theres no way you gonna double the weight you can bench press without your chest getting bigger. Its just not possible, believe me. So start with a weight that you can only lift 6 times and not one single time more and try to lift that weight 7 times in your next workout session...it might take a few more sessions (not only one) to increase the reps your doing from 6 to 7 you..and then from 7 to 8 tho...but if u can increase your reps AT ALL even if its a slow process that means your gaining muscle. Just aim to increase the reps and thus the weights your lifting....oh and btw if u can do 8 reps put start using more weight so u can only do 6 reps again...that way u increase the weight u lift and ure muscles are growing.

You got it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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