"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Macking off a new woman

LoneRanger

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Last night was my 2nd sleep over with a woman I met on the internet. The first night she was offering to cook and do stuff like that. However, today she offered to give me $10 because I mentioned I was low on cash.

I turned it down because she has no money herself, however, the next time I'll take the cash.

How do you mack off a woman without her realizing that I may be a gold digger?

Remember, fellas, she has hardly no money herself.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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COD

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find another woman...........If Ya gonna be a gold digga Ya gots to finds a sugar momma.

Seriously dude, true Macks dont do that kinda stuff, taking cash from people that have little. This forum is for a better life, now the saying goes....

IF U AINT GOTS NO MONEY TAKE YOUR BROKE AZZ HOME..........feel me dawg.

I too am guilty of gulp...........allowing a chic to buy me a brand new car, leather jacket, dinners, paying for the motel, taking me on vacation.........butt I felt a lil guilty so I got my own financial situation straight so that I dont eva return to that state.

Sooner or later the rich hoes all catch on............
 

jdon23

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LoneRanger said:
Last night was my 2nd sleep over with a woman I met on the internet. The first night she was offering to cook and do stuff like that. However, today she offered to give me $10 because I mentioned I was low on cash.

I turned it down because she has no money herself, however, the next time I'll take the cash.

How do you mack off a woman without her realizing that I may be a gold digger?

Remember, fellas, she has hardly no money herself.
I had to read your post several times to understand what you were getting at. The first time I read it, I thought you were asking advice how to have sex with this woman, and at the same time, have her give you money and not suspect an "act".

If this is what you're asking, then :down: for making real men look like douche bag scam artists. This is not a Don Juan.

But then I read the last sentence and it sounds as if you feel bad about taking any money at all. That alone makes me think you really aren't a heartless bastard driven by greed. Please clarify this for me.
 

LoneRanger

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Okay. I see what you are saying.

I am not trying to dig up all of her money for myself. However, when she is offering it to me, like wanting to give me $10, how do I accept these offers without making her or her family think I am a mooch just out for money?

I am not going out with her to scam monetary freebees because I know she doesn't have a lot to begin with.

I own a biz and have my own money but because of the economy and paying bills from time to time am short on cash on hand.

I am worry about her family and friends turning her against me.
 

Jeffst1980

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Don't accept loans from your girlfriend, and don't loan her money. Not unless you're married.

Borrow from family or friends instead. Financial transactions between couples get blown WAY out of proportion in the event of a breakup.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Scaramouche

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No such thing as a free Lunch Lone Ranger,everything has its own price!I also Agree with Jeff....I once loaned a very nice Lady a decent sum of money....That I never saw the Bread again is largely irrelevent but the damage it caused our relationship was very sad,would have been much better to give her the dough.
 

vitor

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Just let her buy you luch, dinner or pay for a movie etc... Do not take money directly..
 
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